Born on a Tidewater Virginia plantation, she had no formal education, but learned all the skills of managing a plantation, rearing a family, and presiding over a home that would be John Tyler's refuge during an active political life. They were married on March 29, 1813--his twenty-third birthday. Thereafter, whether he served in Congress or as Governor of Virginia, she attended to domestic duties. Only once did she join him for the winter social season in Washington, DC. Of the eight children she bore, seven survived; but after 1839 she was a cripple, though "still beautiful now in her declining years."
In a second-floor room at the White House, Letitia Tyler kept her quiet but pivotal role in family activities. She did not take part in the social affairs of the administration. Her married daughters had their own homes; the others were too young for the full responsibility of official entertaining; Priscilla at age 24 assumed the position of White House hostess.
The first President's wife to die in the White House, Letitia Tyler passed away on September 10, 1842. She was taken to Virginia for burial at the plantation of her birth.