The forms are supposed to exist in what is, for Plato, not inaccurately described as a "Platonic heaven." For Plato, when human beings die, their souls achieve some sort of reunion with the forms--reunion, because souls originate in and even, in life, have some recollection of, this Platonic heaven.
Form and idea are terms used to translate the Greek word eidos (plural eide). "Idea" is a misleading translation, because for Plato, the eide do not exist in the mind.
For more information about Plato's theory of universals (forms, ideas), see Platonic realism. See also the divided line of Plato.